A month ago I was reading my old journals and I was like ashamed about my old writing way …… yeah I know that a lot of people also experienced that feeling WHY? i really want to know why we are ashamed about the old selves ????!!!
We spend hours and days to question ourselves about what makes us happy? or For example, what is our biggest fear?…… but shame personally never until this past few days .We spent decades living on it with no reasons. we forgot that the person that you are ashamed of is you and me instead of feeling ashamed for example about my old way of writing I should feel proud of myself and happy cause I changed in a beautiful way and my thoughts changed in a wonderful level
personally, I don’t think that we can make her vanish from our lives but we should not let her hang out all the time
Curious to see y’all thoughts\\ XOXO \\
You should be proud of how much you have grown.
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That’s true 💙
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The same I thought but I’m proud of how much I improved and learning 🌺
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Exactly 💯 Instead of discouraging ourselves, we should motivate our inner soul and fight back because what we are today only because of what we were yesterday…We should be proud of ourselves.
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Thanks for sharing 💙
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We should never be ashame of our past selves. Although, I am completely embarrassed when I read my old diaries… GOSH THE GRAMMARS ARE HORRIBLE! 😂
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Ahahaha 😂 sometimes I don’t even understand what I wrote
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Oh my god! It happened to me too 😂 There was so many typos and missing words the sentences don’t make sense!
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😂 yeah exactly
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I don’t think I have been ashamed of myself ever(present or past self). I might be angry, on the things I did back then but I am learning to let go everything that isn’t in the present.
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Beautiful.. that’s what I’m learning to do too:)
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I totally agree with you. Sometimes instead of feeling down, I laugh at some of the immature things I did or said. I am much better now and that is what matters. Thanks for sharing🌸
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I totally agree with you.
Sometimes instead of feeling down, I laugh at some of the things I did or said.
I am better now and that is all that matters.
Thanks for sharing 🌸
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happy to hear that you are better💜 You’re welcome:)
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I totally agree with you.
Sometimes instead of feeling down, I laugh at some of the immature things I did or even said. I am much better than I used to be and that is what matters.
Thanks for sharing🌸
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Great reminder! I often cringed through my old journals before, but now I feel a deep love and compassion for my old self. You only know what you know, when you know it! haha
Thank you ❤
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Kudos to you. Hats off!
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Thank you so much ❤️
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Our past is our experience on which we build our present and probability of future self. So, we should be proud of ourselves that we have gone through so much and endured and now we are our own improvised versions.
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True 💙💯
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Life is but a circle and thru shame comes change!
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Agreed, it happens initially, but when looking back to the evolving journey it’s something to feel proud.
Focus on the steps taken ahead, you will be motivated.
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Reblogged this on The Reluctant Poet.
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