Being a woman in a patriarchal world is not that alluring in a daily life basics, that’s why we should ban so many shityy habits for an equal, peaceful society.
-1 WHEN WILL YOU GET MARRIED?
Society should understand that not every woman in that world want to be married or prioritize marriage. So should accept this and normalizing vibing alone.
-2 ARE YOU PREGNANT?
Guys, we don’t ask that kind of questions, because you don’t know if that person doesn’t want to have kids, or she’s trying too hard, but she can’t because of medical issues or simply it is the person’s weight… It can be embarrassing for you as for the interlocutor.
-3 YOU’RE TOO HAIRY ( SHOULD SHAVE IT)
Personally I’m a hairy person, so I can’t count how many times I’ve been told better shave your hair because it is not that feminine, or it isn’t that glamours especially wearing a dress or a short…. Hair should be shaved when the person want to, and femininity has nothing to do with it , femininity is an energy which is rooted deeply in every female, it isn’t a physical appearance.
–4 ARE YOU SURE YOU’LL GO OUT LIKE THAT?
To be a woman means also to be criticized about the appearance, what she’s wearing, how she’s looking …..” FREAKING TOXIC”.
–5 STOP TALKING LIKE THAT….
Raising your voice or using swear words when you get mad, for some folks it is regarded as vulgarity and lack of femininity…. For them a woman should all the time talk softly, don’t get mad easily…. ”FOOLISHNESS”.
So, i hope y’all enjoyed it. Don’t forget to share your thoughts with us down bellow.// Take Care//
I hundred and one percent agree with you. 🙌🏼
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Glad that you agree with me😊
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I’ve been told all of these at some point and it’s just made me so mad each time. I couldn’t agree more, we really need to stop telling women such ridiculous things and obviously misogynistic things.
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True, we really should stop that shiit, and every individual mind his business it is so exhausting for women to hear that kind of shit over and over.
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Definitely, people need to mind their own business and keep their dumb comments to themselves.
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My wife has heard these things from older female clients.
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Damn ….. Human being do not mind his business
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? Uh huh ?
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this is 100% true. I totally agree with you
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Glad that you agree with me.🤍 Thanks for reading it.
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Anytime 😊
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I agree with your post that these questions should not be asked. However, I have a serious question. Do these questions or comments typically come from men? I don’t know of any men in my circles who would say things like that. I also say this because it seems that the women in my life (my wife, daughter, and my three sisters) seems to care more about what other women would say to them. I just trying to understand. I also lead a mens ministry so your feedback is helpful.
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So glad that you agree with me ☺️ and thank you so much for sharing your thoughts with us. Personally i do receive that kind of questions mostly from women unfortunately, it is so rare hearing that kind of comments from men.
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I love this and I so agree
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Thanks glad that you agree with me 🙂
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Yeah, it’s annoying when people ask me why I’m hairy. I mean I didn’t make myself hairy😣
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Same 🙃
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